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  1. Traditions & Something New

Peonies (our wedding flower) on every anniversary, June 21

For our ten year anniversary, we renewed our vows in Hawaii and took professional photos. A year later on our eleventh anniversary, John and I woke up excitedly that we didn’t have to work this day as we both took the day off, and beautiful peonies (our wedding flower) greeted me on the breakfast table. I also got a text from our contractor that he was on his way to our home to start demo on our kitchen that morning – exciting times! (More to come on our new reno project). John and I exchanged the traditional wedding gifts. We usually have an idea of what we’re getting each other, but it’s still fun choosing and shopping for the gift. The traditional gift for an 11th wedding anniversary is Steel. We knew exactly what we wanted to gift each other as it is also something we’ve needed for the house and that we’d get a ton of use out of. I’ve wanted these steel Yeti wine tumblers for quite sometime to use at the pool, or while traveling/camping. Yeti makes really great high quality ones so I got John a black steel wine tumbler and he got me the pink steel wine tumbler. Cheers!

 

2. Anniversary Trip

We finally broke away from the kids for an overnight trip to San Antonio to stay at one of my bucket list hotels, the Hotel Emma.  John and I don’t get many date nights so it was nice to be out without kids for once. If we really wanted to, we could ask my dad to watch the kids and make date night a priority, but because he already watches Baron during the day, Monday to Friday, which is a huge help to us, we don’t want to take advantage of his time and we respect his time. But for  special occasions such as John’s and my wedding anniversary, we do make special arrangements in advance for childcare and we are so grateful for the extra time for John and myself.  I assume this may be a challenge with balance that many married couples with children face and understand that we could improve on this area in the following year. More on this later.

So today I want to recap our 11th wedding anniversary.

First things first- we NEED talk about this hotel. We first discovered Hotel Emma last winter on our first visit to San Antonio. We didn’t stay at the hotel, but we dined and drank around the Pearl, and toured the property and grounds. I just knew John and I would have to come back for a weekend getaway without the kids. As our 11th anniversary was approaching, we booked the last River Terrace room! It really might be the most gorgeous hotel we’ve ever had the pleasure of patronizing. You step onto the grounds and you feel as if you’ve been transported to Europe. Just look at this place-

Lobby

 

Lobby

Lobby

For starters, the attentive staff welcomes you with their signature cocktail La Babia, in their amazing library. For any fellow bibiophiles, this library needs to be on your bucket list asap.

Hotel Emma Library

The rooms are gorgeous. We opted for the River Terrace Room because this balcony!  The hotel was definitely a splurge but we don’t go out as often and we love treating ourselves on our anniversary so we went for it. Man was it the right decision. We’ve never felt to utterly spoiled at a hotel. This terrace was my favorite feature as it was our own private little sanctuary to enjoy a glass of wine, or morning coffee with a cozy fire and overlooking the river.

So in love with the bathroom design – vintage mixed with industrial and old world charm and all. the. brass. accents.

To our delight, a beautiful plate of chocolate covered strawberries that John had arranged was on our table upon arriving to our room. A surprise bottle of champagne in a bucket of ice and a handwritten note was left by the Culinary Concierge.

We headed up to the rooftop pool to check out the views before getting ready for dinner.

Outfit Details:  Jumpsuit: A New Day |  Sandals: Teva

We eventually pried ourselves away from the hotel and headed out to dinner and explored the Pearl District. The hotel shuttle will take you downtown but since our dinner reservation was so close to our hotel, we wanted to walk to dinner and enjoy the sights around the Pearl on this beautiful first day of summer.

Coincidentally, J-Lo was also leaving the hotel lobby at the same time as she was headed out to her concert that night. I don’t usually get starstruck, but I thought it was cool that even a-list celebs love the Hotel Emma.


For dinner we enjoyed a beautiful dinner at Cured, just a few minutes walk from the hotel.  We’ve always enjoyed going to out special restaurants in Seattle and the Eastside for our anniversary dinners, and we were looking for a comparable experience in San Antonio. We believe we found just the spot at Cured. At first glance, the building reminded me of one of John’s and my old favorite date night restaurants in Madison Park, Madison Park Conservatory (RIP) with its cozy atmosphere, reclaimed and exposed wood and brick interiors.

Cured specializes in charcuterie boards and house-cured meats. Overall food was delicious, ambiance was beautiful with warm exposed brick, ornate details and elevated updates throughout the interior in a historical atmosphere. The building used to be the Pearl’s Administration Building built in 1904 and has been lovingly restored. As you enter the building, a large charcuterie case shows off hanging meat in the dining room; it’s stocked with options like smoked vealwurst, smoked duck ham, and jalapeño sausages.

I loved everything we ordered, but favorite dish was the Beet, Avocado and Citrus Salad.  The flavors and textures just remind of the delicious farm to table foods we enjoyed in the PNW.

Aged pork belly, bresaola, smoked double barrel cheddar, pink lemonade jam

 

Avocado, Beet & Citrus Salad

 

Wagyu Beef Short Ribs

After dinner we ended the night with a gorgeous stroll at sunset along the famed San Antonio River Walk, followed by more champagne, macarons and turndown service.

River Walk

Outfit Details | Crop Knit Top: Zara similar here | Blazer: Wild Fable | Shorts: Prologue |  Sandals: Sam Edleman, similar here

 

When we returned back to our room, THESE were waiting for us. At Hotel Emma, turn down service comes with macarons. Every. Night. Winning.

Turn Down Service with Macarons!

We made ourselves right at home lounging in these amazing lightweight cotton Guyarobes by Dos Carolinas made exclusively for Hotel Emma.

 

In the morning, you can ring downstairs and hot, freshly brewed coffee magically appears in your room, or you can head down to the Library and enjoy the same freshly brewed Merit Coffee at the coffee cart with an assortment of continental breakfast pastries.

We opted to do both because the library is just so fabulous – had one cup of coffee there and brought more coffee up to our room to enjoy on our terrace.

I find that the best time for truly experiencing architecture during travel and resort amenities is very early in the morning before the crowds come down or arrive. Since becoming a mother I’ve been an early riser and just can’t sleep in. I am a morning person and love quiet mornings exploring hotel grounds without any distractions. The stunning Southerleigh is a hidden gem tucked in the Hotel Emma. Truly a treat for the senses, we got to admire all the rich architectural and design elements that went into this building and had the place pretty much to ourselves.

Pearl Farmers Market

I’m so glad we made plans to visit the Pearl Farmers Market. This has got to be one of my favorite farmers markets I’ve been and we’ve been to a lot!  The Pearl Farmers Market is held every Saturdays and set up along the beautiful outdoor space through the Pearl grounds, which is also just outside the hotel, hosting local produce, meat & cheese producers, fresh flowers, fresh baked goods, live music & cooking demos. It is also very family-friendly with a splash pad for kids in the middle of the plaza. This is the perfect spot to grab breakfast or lunch and a bistro table while the kids splash or run around the park.

Outfit Details | Dress: A New Day |  Sandals: Teva

 

Before checking out of our hotel, we had to stop by the gift shop to pick up a bottle of the most wonderful scent we experienced throughout the hotel during our stay – Milagros by Soular Therapy designed and produced this exquisite room fragrance exclusively for Hotel Emma. The spring and summer aromas of amber, sandalwood, oakmoss, and citrus greeted and followed us throughout the property and we wanted to experience the same aromas at home. I never knew ‘scent marketing’ was a thing but I’m now a believer!

Scent Marketing definition by Air Aroma: By using scent, brands are able to connect with consumers on a deeper emotional level, resulting in a more memorable experience. Scent can attract new customers, increase sales, heighten value perception, and expand brand recognition and customer satisfaction.

 

After a weekend of being wooed by Hotel Emma and her gorgeous architecture, attentive staff, macarons, champagne, and coffee, we were refreshed and ready to go home to see our kids and how the demo was coming along. Besides, isn’t that one of the best things about getting away? At the end, as much as we love a luxurious getaway, we’re ready to go home. And we’re reminded of how special home is and how much we love being at home with our little family.

3. Notes on 11 years of marriage

Over the years, each person learns that marriage isn’t all about spending every waking moment together, it’s more about discovering our individual dreams, talents and challenges and growing together and as one as lovers, best friends, partners, and companions. As a family.

Marriage is a time of constant learning and adjusting. It’s the time of endless self-discovery and growth. The journey continues, but every year there is something new. That, is my reality of our marriage in the 11th year.

What does your marriage look like today?

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The highly anticipated House of Dior exhibit, Dior: From Paris to the World, opened at the Dallas Museum of Art last Sunday and I just had to get my fashion fix with an early peek.

The exhibit profiles both Christian Dior himself and the fashion house’s artistic directors including Yves Saint Laurent, Marc Bohan, Gianfranco Ferré, John Galliano, Raf Simons and Maria Grazia Chiuri.

Featuring almost 200 haute couture dresses, as well as accessories, photos, original sketches, runway videos and other archival material, this exhibit is one of the most beautiful displays I have ever seen.

As you enter, you’re surrounded by outfits from “The New Look,” 18 black and white looks. The collection’s two main lines, the Corolle and the En 8, set the stage for fashion in the 1950s.

 

Next you go into the “Office of Dreams,” a collection of 22 white toiles or mock-ups in plain cotton muslin.

 

 

 

 

While these displays were impressive, the runway hall was fun to walk through as your unexpectedly step into the “From Paris to the World” hall. It’s filled with 57 designs, propped up high, allowing you to look up in awe as you approach the back wall, which is also gasp-worthy. Thirteen dresses are highlighted in their own little cubbies, reaching high up to the ceiling.

 

 

Dallas Museum of Art’s 40-foot-high Barrel Vault gives this striking display maximum impact, providing the Dallas exhibit with something that the Denver exhibit did not have.

 

 

“Splendors of the 18th Century” shows Dior’s desire to bring the flamboyance of 18th-century France into modern life.

Lastly, “Fields to Flowers” conveys Dior’s belief that “After women, flowers are the most divine creations.”

 

I left this exhibit feeling inspired and refreshed seeing all the beautiful fashion, art and designs. I feel so fortunate to have had the opportunity to move, live, work, raise my family, and pursue my passions in a new city where fashion is celebrated in a big way.

This quote pretty much sums up how I feel about moving here.

 

‘Dior: From Paris To The World’ is on display at the DMA May 19, 2019 to September 1, 2019. Timed tickets can be purchased here. 

 

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Image courtesy of PaperCity

 

 

Since moving to Fort Worth TX, John and I, along with our kids have been making time on the weekends to explore our new town, city, region, and state. Recently we had the opportunity to head south to San Antonio to explore the San Antonio’s Historic Pearl and The Missions. We absolutely loved it and wanted to share our discoveries and photos of the area with you!

Stay

AIRBNB

This trip’s Airbnb was an amazing historic mission building, Casa De Alamo, built in 1868 that has been fully restored with modern décor and luxe touches, kid friendly amenities, and had everything we needed for a comfortable stay.  The scenic drive to the home was a highlight in itself passing through winding roads and views of Texas Hill Country.

Absolutely loved this welcoming front porch.

The stoney walls continue throughout the interior…

Cute farmhouse style kitchen

The kids’ bedroom

 

Master Bedroom…

Complete with the perfect selfie mirror for capturing the perfect #ootds

Outfit Details: Coat: H&M, Pants and Top old, Platform Sandals  Blush (also available in white)

The back deck, fully fenced, and just beyond the grass is a creek

 See

The Pearl

The Pearl is a great example of the revitalization along the Riverwalk. Originally a brewery founded in 1881, this property has seen a renaissance in the last decade. Buildings have undergone complete renovation and restoration and now house the Culinary Institute of America, 15+ food venues, a weekend farmer’s market, a luxury hotel and apartments, 13+ retail venues, a yoga studio, and the new Bottling Department, San Antonio’s first food hall, opened in 2017.

The turf lawn outside the Bottling Department Food Hall is the perfect spot for kids to run around and play and people watch.

 

Hotel Emma

Located in the hip Pearl District of San Antonio, Hotel Emma was originally Pearl’s Brewhouse built in 1894 and a San Antonio landmark ever since. It brings an eclectic, high style vibe to a city known for its intermingling of the multicultural and historical. Opened in 2015, Hotel Emma was designed by the award-winning firm Roman and Williams in the historic Pearl Brewery bulding, whose IG I’ve been following for years for their stunning designs in all the cool places. I could spend an entire blog post on just the Hotel Emma itself, but for now I’ll just share some of our favorite features we had time to enjoy.

Lobby

The Roman and Williams team created an original hacienda-chic style that feels one part South Texas ranch, one part Old World extravagance, and one part Jules Verne steampunk.

The front of the building welcomes guests and visitors to a beautiful courtyard that has a romantic Old World feel, with string lights hung, terracotta tiles, a water feature created from tanks salvaged from the original brewery, and a sitting area in front of a beautiful large wood burning fireplace.

Courtyard and wood burning fireplace

Can we take a moment and talk about this impressive kitchen? The Exhibition Kitchen at Hotel Emma sitting smack dab exposed in the middle of a hallway hosts events and classes throughout the year offered to guests. When not in use, the kitchen is definitely a show stopper and conversation starter.

Edible garden landscape outside Supper

 

Outfit Details: Blazer Cape (from 2016): Similar here, Jumpsuit: ANewDay , Sandals  Blush (also comes in White), Fanny Pack: Who What Wear (no longer available)  similar here

 

The Missions

Preserved by the National Historic Parks, San Antonio’s four historic missions are not only architecturally alluring, but also offer some of the area’s most interesting attractions. Sadly, many people have never even heard of these missions – overshadowed as they are by the famous Alamo. Here are some of San Antonio’s most beautiful missions to get your family-friendly, cultural adventure off to a great start.

A fun family day out, The Missions are very kid friendly and best of all, a free attraction for the entire family to enjoy. Kids can run and play inside their stone walls, explore garrisons that guarded residents from raiding Apaches and Comanches, see how native peoples lived 250+ years ago, and learn how ancient settlers grew crops and carried water along an ancient aqueduct.

Mission San Jose

Mission San Juan

Mission Espada

 

Eat and Shop

San Antonio Historic Market Square

We followed the upbeat music and came upon a square dating back to the 1820s, which locals dub “El Mercado,” full of vendor stalls, indoor shops and patio-equipped Latin eateries sitting underneath colorful strings of flags.

The boys and I had our first authentic Gordita! As surprising as that sounds and as much as I love Mexican food, I’ve just been comfortable ordering my usual street style tacos al pastor or carne asada. The boys loved them so much so I’m going to have to learn to make these gorditas at home!

The indoor market had the most beautiful artisan wares. I need to go back for some Saltillo tiles and other art objects.

 

Brunch at Ocho

Ocho is arguably one of the most instagrammable spots in San Antonio no matter the time of day and weather conditions. I knew I had to visit here after seeing photos of their conservatory attached to the Hotel Havana which serves as the Ocho restaurant/bar. I mean the place practically had all of my favorite things in life: windows, plants, marble, turquoise, and brunch!

Upon entering, you are greeted by the largest and tallest Fiddle Leaf Fig you’ll ever see.

 

Southtown

We spent our last day in San Antonio in the Southtown neighborhood, which we stumbled upon by accident searching for the nearest Steelcity Pops per Jonah’s request. After a bit of walking we found Steelcity Pops around the backside of a block located in another industrial building with a big grass lawn in front. I could see this being a popular spot for families during the warmer months.

We also found The Friendly Spot while driving through Southtown. What we first saw was the big children’s play structure out front with tons of kids playing and having fun. In the background was what appeared to be a bar. To our surprise, this said bar had the perfect solution for parents with kids to be able to enjoy some adult beverages while their kids safely played. Let’s just say the rest of our plans for the day got scratched after we found The Friendly Spot.

 

Finally, no trip to San Antonio would be complete without stopping in an H-E-B for market goods. For South Texans, H-E-B is the spot for locally sourced and specialty food items. It’s corporate headquarters is based San Antonio with retail stores located primarily in South Texas and 8 locations in the Southwest part of the DFW Metroplex – we feel lucky to have one in Granbury!  We decided to stop at the H-E-B near our Airbnb in Helotes where we were staying, and to our delight, it was Happy Hour at South Flo Pizza!  South Flo Pizza is a new concept at select H-E-B stores featuring fresh made-to-order artisan pizzas. Happy Hour is from 4-7pm and includes a 16″ large pizza and a choice of draft beers and wine… all for only $10.00!!

Clearly, the wine and beer made our day. The pizza was delicious too! The best I’ve had in Texas.

San Antonio has so much more that we want to see and will have to do on our next visit. I’m already booking a hotel stay for just hubby and me at Hotel Emma for our 11thanniversary this summer!  Three things still on my bucket list in San Antonio:  The Riverwalk, The Luxury, and La Villitia Historic Arts Village.

For those who have travelled to San Antonio, what are your favorite places to check out?

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Some of my favorite ways to update a space is to add plants and art. As we already know with plants, they purify the air, increase oxygen levels and remove toxins from the air. What I love most about plants is that they add instant style and enhance your décor. When you combine greenery and art to any room, the combo livens up the space and adds color and texture.

We’ve always had tons of plants in our previous homes, but when we were getting ready to move to Texas, we found out we were not allowed to travel with our large mature houseplants. (The years of investing in its growth!). Thanks to OfferUp and Facebook Marketplace, I was able to find good homes for our beloved Fiddle Leaf Figs and succulents. Now that we are settled in our new home in Texas, I’ve been slowly adding new plants to different rooms of the house.  The sun exposure and directional placement of the house is quite different from what we’ve been used to, so I often find myself moving plants around to different parts of the house to test where it might be most happy and thrive.

My favorite room of the house right now is our breakfast room. This is the space where we come together as a little family to eat most of our meals, where we share highlights from our days, and talk about our plans for the coming week and next day.  The breakfast room also faces windows looking out to our backyard and greenbelt and it is a beautiful sight in the spring and summer seasons. During the winter months, the bare trees and bare branches are hardly inspiring, so having something happy and beautiful to look at helps liven up the area even boosts our moods.  Enter Betsy the Cow and a Fiddle Leaf Fig. Two pieces I’ve added to our breakfast room since we moved here. I got so excited when I stumbled upon this Betsy art on a random HomeGoods run. I remember seeing a larger Betsy The Cow print a couple years ago, but I didn’t get it then and have regretted in ever since. When I saw this one, I knew I had to have it and I already had the perfect spot to hang it. The background color also match perfectly with my chairs. As for the fiddle leaf fig, you can never have too many fiddle leaf figs in your home. This one is the perfect starter height and grown in a tree form so it will retain its sculpture like shape.  I can’t wait for it grow!

Here’s a before and after shot of the breakfast room. The space before from the previous owners’ MLS listing was darker with heavier furnishings and fixtures.I really love how this little corner in our home feels now and has transformed with just the art and plant addition and furnishing updates.

 

More plants and art scattered throughout the home…

 

What are some of your favorite ways to update or refresh a space?

 

 

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Every January, I get excited to set new goals for the upcoming year. For me, the New Year brings energy, inspiration, and the need to reorganize and declutter my home and personal spaces.

Here’s a look at my rearranged family room. Kids toys are no longer in sight and moved to the playroom, while the TV and media stand have been moved to the east wall. Accents such as a new rug and wall art freshen up the space.  The art is from Home Goods (my other happy place) which was screaming my name. After two trips to said happy place, this piece was still there, so I knew I had to have it. The turquoise color makes me so happy every time I enter this room.

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